So i’m writing this because of my own bad experience, and that would be when, You never know when somebody’s last goodbye is. You never know when is the last time you see them, you hear them or you touch them, and when they’re gone without any warning, It suddenly strikes you in your daily life and you hold yourself guilty that if you had one last chance to make things right you would.
But I think it’s never too late to express your love and affection for them. If somebody’s really upset with you or whatever may have happened between you and you’re just afraid of that thought of something happening to them then trust me, Run and make things right before it’s too late. Because when they’re gone without saying a goodbye you’ll be broken. I guess that’s when you know you’re really attached to a person when you’re afraid of losing them for life even if you don’t talk anymore, Even if you’re on really bad terms, Or even when you’re with them and you go to sleep on bad terms with someone, Trust me, DON’T. What if the next morning you don’t get to see them? You’ll regret having fought with them or that things went wrong and you’d wish you had a last chance to see them and make things right, Or even if you are with your loved ones and are afraid to loose them for life, Go spend as much time as you can, Because it’s never too late.
So, are regrets really that bad? Umm..Not Really!
It keeps you wondering what was your fault? How you could’ve made it better? You frown thinking about it. You indulge yourself into deep thoughts about that bad decision you once made. You try to distract yourself from it but you just can’t, it’s constantly stuck in the back of your mind.
But do they have to be so heart wrenching to leave us constantly contemplating about it?
Not always I suppose, each time you regret a faulty decision or a mistake of yours is the time you really learn from it. It alerts for the future, when again you’re about to make the same mistake you recall your regret and take a step back saving yourself. Regrets shouldn’t really be that regretful because that is exactly what you once wanted.
You know, this happens with me all the time , I try to brush
off those rubbish things along with the persistent regret, churn my brains out I pacify myself for the time being.
But it proves much harder than i ever thought..
We tend to constantly relap and again fall in the same dark pitch of our thoughts.
Take it as a page misprinted in the book of your beautiful life and enjoy it.
Stay tuned. 🙂
“Time flies over us, but leaves it’s shadow behind.”
– Nathaniel Hawthorne
Time really does fly by. It flies like an arrow you can see, but you cannot feel how fast it goes. For a period of time you’re very unhappy, but then there would be a time when you are the happiest person, Time flies. There are many phases, some are the rough patches and some are the most joyful and memorable.
But what you don’t realise is when the time flew. If you’re in school you miss your childhood, you cherish the moments of that little kid you were who just slept the whole day and did nothing, If you’re in college or you have a job, you miss your childhood as well as your school days when all you did was have fun with your friends. The most tiny moments are the most important and beautiful moments is what most of us don’t cherish.
All you need to do is understand how beautiful a life is. It takes you through a long beautiful journey which has the most difficult times but somehow you make it till the end. For all of you who think that your life is just miserable, but oh wait. You’re highly mistaken, this is just a rough patch the most foxy and wonderful moments are yet to come. Life isn’t about just “living” it somehow, life is all about making it worth living.
You’re lucky enough for the life you have to do what you love and not waste a moment on the pointless sad patch as well to let go of a billion dollar smile. It doesn’t matter if the time flew by . It’s never too late to make the most out of your life and make it the astonishing.
Stay tuned. 🙂
She used to call me every day to ask about my studies or how I am doing with my life and was always worried about my health. But for some or the other reasons I was too “busy” that I couldn’t return her calls every day, It’s not that I didn’t love her I loved with my whole heart and I still do.
Regrets are the most painful. So a while back I lost my world, my support pillar, my teacher, the best part of my life.. Nanna ( maternal grandmother) yeah that’s what I call her. She was the closest to me, she was the one who knew every side of me and every bit of me.
I feel incomplete without her, I every summer used to go to her house and she used to make all the tasty stuff for me and she even used to send it to my house. 17th march on her birthday was the last day I spoke to her, the last day I saw her alive. On fine night which was 11th June dad’s phone rang it was my maasi the other side she said nanna isn’t responding. It was 6 in the morning when we all went to her house to see her. I saw her on the bed just lying there not responding not opening her eyes it broke my heart. My universe fell apart. My hands beg to touch her again, I want to listen to her voice for the last time, feel the touch of her beautiful hands. . But that’s what I can never ever do again is what hurts me the most. I’m afraid won’t be able to tell her every tiny detail, afraid that I’ll never be able to see her again. She always used to bring small gifts for me. I’ll miss her gifts,her best wishes for me, her voice everything about her.She will forever remain in my heart. She’s probably in a better place now.
I learned that it’s never too late for anything. Express your love to the fullest to your dear ones you never know what might happen tomorrow. If your parents or grandparents or anyone you love is with near you right now go hug them tell them how much you love them, how much they mean to you or if they’re not there give them a call but express. I don’t want anyone to have such horrible regrets. So that’s all about it.
Stay happy. 🙂
What is Self harm?
Deliberate injury to oneself, typically as a manifestation of a psychological or psychiatric disorder. In today’s world Self harm is well known. Often when people are extremely devastated or feel miserable they think that if they hurt themselves then everything will get better.
If you’re having a hard time pinpointing the feelings that trigger your urge to cut, you may need to work on your emotional awareness. Emotional awareness means knowing what you are feeling and why. It’s the ability to identify and express what you are feeling from moment to moment and to understand the connection between your feelings and your actions, Which sometimes may result to be unpleasant.
Harming yourself won’t ever make it easier. Just giving pain to your own self isn’t the solution. Everyone in this world faces difficulties but that is what the challenge is all about, to test the patience and how you handle the situation. On the outside it may seem that hurting yourself will make you feel a lot better, But trust me it won’t, maybe for a little while but then you’ll have the urge to hurt yourself again and again, This is not how you can cope up with your feelings. Yes everyone deserves better but hurting yourself and making yourself feel better isn’t what you deserve. There are millions of things that can make you happy and feel better. You just need to look for them as they’re just around you. Most of the people choose self harm as a way to express their feelings but that’s not it. Focus on sharing your feelings one to one.
So that’s it. Just be sure not to hurt yourself no matter how difficult the situation is and stay positive.
Stay happy. 🙂
“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself. Do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.”- Bruce Lee.
Expression, beauty in reality and success in all its sincerity, is what I have come to believe in. I am a very ambitious person, ambition is what makes you dedicated. I love to get to know people more and more. I believe life is all about adventures to explore and lessons to learn from. I also believe that life is about failures as well, because that’s when you get to work on your mistakes. You learn from your mistakes and you’re a step ahead. My hobbies are dancing , baking , and writing and I’m the kind of a girl who would cry if a stranger is in pain, Trust me I’m a very emotional person.
Apart from that I don’t write to pass the time, I write because I love to express myself through words. I write because I feel good while writing, I don’t have to be a materialistic person. When I write, It’s mainly about things related to me, close to me or I think that people need to be aware of. I was inspired to start a blog from a friend. Writing makes me know myself more than actually anyone else does, because when you write, you write freely without anyone judging you. I want to inspire and motivate people to write about whatever they love or want to express and be happy and joyous in life. Most of the times when I come across people they seem to be eternally sad or depressed whatever the reason may be. I will try to write posts about positivity to erase the negativity from people’s minds and lives. Life has become all about competition and what others think of you as a person. What matters more? Your opinion of yourself or others judging you?
If you’re positive enough and confident enough about yourself and life then there’s no one who can stop you. I have flaws, yeah I’m working on them. I would want to know the mindset of people and everything about them. Not the materialistic person but the beautiful inner soul which wants to come out and spread colours. I will try and I wish that I will make you feel positive about yourself and about life. Life isn’t a race but a beautiful journey. So yeah that’s all about me and my thoughts.
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Stay happy and positive. 🙂
He is my best friend. whenever I’m sad I just go and hug him ,feels I’m home. What will I do when he’s gone? Who will I call with different shitty names? Who will I look for in the whole house when I need a shoulder to cry on? Who will be there to lick me when I get home? Who will be there to look at me with those innocent eyes pleading for just one more candy? Who will be there to snatch my clothes? Who will be there to woof at every weird noise? Who will just sleep all day and save the energy to play with me at night? Who will make me forcefully scratch his belly? Who would just want to sleep on my lap the whole day and never get up? Who would want to just walk for five more minutes? Who would just come and irritate me by chewing my pen while I’m studying?
DOGS, who are dogs?
“A dog is the only thing on earth that loves you more than he loves himself.”
They will always cheer you up when you’re sad. They will always listen to you when you have no one to talk to but them. They will always get excited when you get home. He will always sleep on your lap no matter how old he grows. No matter how irritated you get with him, No matter how mad you are at him, He’ll still love you unconditionally. A dog would always want your love and attention that’s all. They’re always ready to go out for a walk or play with you anytime. They’re the ones who’ll just eat from your hand, No one else’s. No matter how much you torture them by playing with their ears or with their toys they will still love you the same.
I’m just afraid..afraid that I no longer will have his shiny hair on my tees and jeans. That I will no longer be able to do all the crazy experiments on him. That I will have no one to play with. That i will miss him on Rakshabandhan , that every year tradition to tie him a rakhi that he’s the best brother and a baby I could have. I will do whatever it takes me to keep him alive as long as he can.
I’m scared of the fact that I’ll have to lose chubby (my dog) one day, What am I even without him?
P.S- This is my first post and I really wanted my first post to be about dogs and also I can barely imagine my life without dogs. I will be giving my not so formal introduction in the next post.
Stay happy. 🙂